The Solstice Network
You know something is off. You just have not had the space to figure out what.
The Solstice Network is where women come to uncover who they are underneath the roles, titles, and expectations they have been living inside.
It is where organizations, communities, and event organizers come to bring this work to the women in their world.
Underneath the roles. Into yourself.
You can be good at everything and still not know who you are underneath it. The identity you have been living inside was built around everything external. What you do, who you show up for, what others have expected from you. There is more underneath it than you have had the chance to examine.
The Solstice Network is where that examination happens. A structured process for uncovering who you are so you have something real to build from, adapt from, and make decisions from.
What is The Solstice Network
Who this is for
Built for the woman ready to figure out who she is and the organizations ready to bring this work to their communities.
Whether you are a woman who has spent years showing up for everyone else and has no idea who she is when she stops, a new student about to step into a world that will hand her a ready made identity, a professional who has built her whole sense of self around her title and is starting to feel the cost of that.
An organization, event planner, or community leader who knows the women in their room need something that goes deeper than surface level inspiration, who want to help prevent burnout, increase retention and psychological safety, or help better prepare leadership.
Women who know who they are underneath the roles make better decisions, lead more effectively, stay longer, burn out less, and show up more fully for everything and everyone around them.
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The expertise behind the network
When chronic illness exposed everything she had built her sense of self on, there was no guide, no process, and no one who understood that what she was losing went beyond her health. She had to figure out who she actually was underneath all of it with no roadmap.
What came out of those years became The Solstice Method. A framework developed from years of the hardest questions she had ever sat with, grounded in her background as an environmental scientist who spent a decade studying how living systems survive disruption and reorganize into something more resilient because of it.
She brings the same rigor she applied to understanding ecological systems to identity coaching for women and organizations. Identity collapses when it is built on an external foundation, one that was never examined. The Solstice Method exists to change that.
This work is built from lived experience, a decade of scientific training, and a process she developed because nothing like it existed when she needed it most.
IntroducingThe Solstice Method
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PHASE ONE
The Solstice Method is a four phase process for women ready to find out who they are underneath everything life has required of them.
The Awareness
You have been living inside an identity you never fully examined. Life has now made it impossible to ignore.
PHASE TWO
PHASE THREE
PHASE FOUR
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The Turning
The Rising
The Claiming
You are starting to see what you have been carrying. You are beginning to wonder how much of it was ever yours.
You know what no longer fits. Now it is time to build from what is yours.
You know who you truly are. Now you claim it without hesitation, so nothing external can take it away.
How we work together
Find your path below.
For the event planner, organization, or community leader ready to bring this work into their room. Every keynote and workshop is shaped around your audience and what you need the women in your space to walk away knowing.
The Solstice Method
For the woman ready to find out who she is underneath the roles, titles, and expectations she has been living inside.
Start with the free identity quiz and the Compass Audit, available now.
The full program launching in 2026. Join the waitlist below.
Available in person and virtually.
Identity Speaking and Workshops
Kylie Paul
contactkyliepaul@gmail.com
The Solstice™ is the proprietary methodology of Kylie Paul. © 2026 Kylie Paul. All rights reserved.
Based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Available worldwide.