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The Solstice Network

You already known there is more to you than what your roles have required.

The Solstice Network is where women come to uncover who they are underneath the roles, titles, and expectations life has required of them.

It is where organizations come to bring this work to the women in their communities.

Underneath the roles. Into yourself.

The Solstice Network is built on a simple understanding. The identity you have been living inside was built around everything external. What you do, who you show up for, and what others have always expected from you. That version of you was never the whole picture.

Identity coaching requires going underneath all of it. To what was always yours before the roles, the titles, and the expectations covered it up.

This is a structured process for uncovering who you actually are and building every part of your life from there.

What is The Solstice Network

Who this is for

Built for the woman ready to figure out who she is and the organizations ready to bring this work to their communities.

Whether you are a woman who has spent years showing up for everyone else and has no idea who she is when she stops, a new student about to step into a world that will hand her a ready made identity, a professional who has built her whole sense of self around her title and is starting to feel the cost of that.

An organization, event planner, or community leader who knows the women in their room need something that goes deeper than surface level inspiration, who want to help prevent burnout, increase retention and psychological safety, or help better prepare leadership.

Women who know who they are underneath the roles make better decisions, lead more effectively, stay longer, burn out less, and show up more fully for everything and everyone around them.

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1:1

PHASE METHOD

90

Free

PROGRAMS

MIN COMPASS AUDIT

QUIZ TO START

The expertise behind the network

Kylie Paul lived the version of this work that had no guide, no process, and no one who understood that what she was going through was not just a health crisis. It was an identity crisis.

What she built on the other side of that became The Solstice Method. A framework developed from years of the hardest questions she had ever sat with, grounded in her background as an environmental scientist who spent a decade studying how living systems survive disruption and reorganize into something more resilient because of it.

She brings the same rigor she applied to understanding ecological systems to identity coaching for women and organizations. The patterns are the same. Identity collapses when it was built on a foundation that was never fully examined. The Solstice Method exists to change that.

This work is built from lived experience, a decade of scientific training, and a process she developed because nothing like it existed when she needed it most.

Women's identity coaching concept image from The Solstice Network by Kylie Paul
Women's identity coaching concept image from The Solstice Network by Kylie Paul

IntroducingThe Solstice Method

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Abstract image of blurred orange and green foliage.
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PHASE ONE

The Solstice Method is a four phase process for women ready to find out who they are underneath everything life has required of them.

The Awareness

You have been living inside an identity you never fully examined. Life has now made it impossible to ignore.

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PHASE TWO

PHASE THREE

PHASE FOUR

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The Turning

The Rising

The Claiming

You are starting to see what you have been carrying. You are beginning to wonder how much of it was ever yours.

You know what no longer fits. Now it is time to build from what is yours.

You know who you truly are. Now you claim it without hesitation, so nothing external can take it away.

How we work together

Find your path below.

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Sunset over the sea with trees on either side.
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For the event planner, organization, or community leader ready to bring this work into their room. Every keynote and workshop is shaped around your audience and what you need the women in your space to walk away knowing.

The Solstice Method

For the woman ready to find out who she actually is underneath everything life has required of her. Starting with the free identity quiz and The Compass Audit, available now.

The full program launching in 2026. Join the waitlist below.


Available in person and virtually.

Identity Speaking and Workshops
Kylie Paul

Email

contactkyliepaul@gmail.com

The Solstice™ is the proprietary methodology of Kylie Paul. © 2026 Kylie Paul. All rights reserved.

Based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Available worldwide.