Identity Speaking & Workshops
The women in your room already know their roles.
I help them find out who they are underneath them.
Most women have this in common regardless of the room they are in
She has spent years inheriting or unconsciously building her sense of self around what she does, who she shows up for, and what is expected of her. Until something changes and none of it feels like her anymore.
I meet women exactly where they are. Whether in a boardroom, a conference room, or a community space, women's identity is at the center of everything Kylie does.
The woman who knows who she is when the roles, titles, and expectations are stripped away shows up differently.
Perspective Kylie brings
The role trap. Identity built from the outside in is always one life change away from collapsing.
The clarity problem. What looks like a confidence or direction problem is almost always an identity problem underneath.
The early foundation. Knowing who you are before life forces the question changes everything about how you move through it.
The uncovering. Women spend years searching outward for themselves when everything they are looking for has been underneath the roles and expectations the whole time.
Featured Keynote
The Clarity Problem What shows up as a confidence problem, a direction problem, or a quiet sense that something is off is almost always the same thing underneath. An identity that was built on the external and never fully examined. This talk gives women the language for what they have actually been experiencing and a framework for what to do about it. It lands in every room because every woman in that room has felt it.
Speaking Topics
Women's empowerment events and conferences The Uncovering Women spend years searching outward for themselves when everything they are looking for has been underneath the roles and expectations the whole time. This talk shifts how women understand their own identity and gives them a framework for what comes next.
Women entrepreneur communities The Role Trap When identity and business become the same thing, losing one means losing both. This talk gets underneath the entrepreneur identity and helps women build a sense of self that no business outcome can take away.
Corporate and municipal settings The Clarity Problem What shows up as burnout, disengagement, and turnover almost always has the same root cause nobody is talking about. This talk gives leaders and teams the language and the framework to address it at the source.
Community groups Knowing Yourself as an Act of Resilience The women who navigate transition most effectively are not the ones who adapt fastest to what is happening around them. They are the ones grounded enough in who they are to keep moving when everything else shifts.
Universities and colleges The Early Foundation Most women build their sense of self around the roles and expectations handed to them before they ever stop to examine whether any of it is actually theirs. This talk gives new students something nobody told them before they stepped into a world ready to hand them a ready made identity.
Healthcare organizations The Helper Identity When your whole sense of self is built around showing up for others, you stop existing when you stop performing that role. This talk addresses the identity erosion underneath healthcare burnout that training programs and wellness initiatives do not reach.
Professional associations Identity Under Pressure Women in male dominated industries spend careers adapting themselves to spaces not built for them. This talk addresses what that costs and what it looks like to lead from who you actually are rather than who the room expects you to be.
Design one specific to your organization or event None of these quite fit? Every engagement can be designed around your audience, your theme, and what you need the women in your room to walk away knowing.
Speaking and Keynotes
For conferences, summits, women's events, and internal sessions that need a voice that actually changes how women think about who they are. Every talk is shaped around your audience and event.
Topics listed above draw from The Solstice Method and Kylie's lived experience and research into why women lose themselves in roles and what it takes to come back to who they are.
Workshops
For organizations, events, and communities ready to go beyond a talk and into actual experience. Workshops bring The Solstice Method into a group setting, giving women a structured taste of phase one, the awareness, in a way that cracks something open and sends them home knowing something about themselves they did not know before.
Available from a two hour session to a full day experience. Delivered in person and virtually. Shaped around your group, your context, and your community needs.
What woman walk away with.
Every woman who experiences this leaves with something she did not have when she walked in. She leaves with language for what she has been carrying, clarity on what her identity has been built on, and the beginning of knowing who she is when everything external is stripped away.
That is not a small thing to walk away with.
How booking works
Step 1. Book a 20 minute discovery call directly in Kylie's calendar for speaking and workshop engagements.
Step 2. Come to the call with your event date, type, and audience details to customize the engagement.
Step 3. Receive a custom proposal outlining the topic, format, logistics, and deliverables within 48 hours.
The discovery call is a 20 minute conversation about your event, your audience, and what you are trying to create.
Completely obligation free.
Formats and Logistics
Available for keynotes, panel discussions, workshops, and internal team sessions. Delivered in person and virtually.
Based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Available as a women's identity speaker and facilitator within Canada and internationally. Travel requirements are discussed during the discovery call and outlined in the proposal.
Currently booking engagements for 2026 and beyond.
For the woman wanting to bring this to her community.
You do not need an official title to collaborate. If you are part of a group, a team, a community, or an organization and you know the women around you need this, reach out. Kylie works with individuals who want to bring this to the people around them just as much as she works with organizations.
Experienced a workshop or keynote and ready to find out who you are underneath the roles and titles?
The Solstice Method is the full four stage process.
Frequently asked questions
What topics does Kylie speak on?
Topics draw from The Solstice Method and Kylie's research into why women lose themselves in roles and what it actually takes to come back to who they are. Every talk is shaped around your audience. Custom topics are available for organizations wanting to explore the connection between identity and climate resilience.
How long are the speaking engagements?
Keynotes typically run 45 to 60 minutes with time for questions. Workshops are available from 2 hours to a full day experience. All formats are discussed during the discovery call.
Who is this for?
Any room where women gather. Women's empowerment events, corporate teams, universities, healthcare organizations, community groups, and professional associations have all benefited from this work. If your audience includes women navigating identity under pressure this belongs in your room.
How is this different from a motivational talk?
Every engagement goes underneath inspiration and into something that shifts how women understand themselves. Topics are grounded in research and lived experience. Women leave with language for what they have been carrying and clarity on what comes next.
Do you need to have done The Solstice Method to attend a workshop?
No. Workshops are designed as a standalone experience that gives women a structured taste of phase one of The Solstice Method. No prior knowledge or experience required.
Is this available virtually?
Yes. All engagements are available in person and virtually. In person sessions are recommended for maximum engagement and impact but virtual is a strong and accessible option.
How do we get started?
Book a 20 minute discovery call or send an email. Come with your event details and your audience. Kylie will come prepared with the right questions and a clear sense of how this can be shaped around what your people need.
Kylie Paul
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Based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Available worldwide.