Life change doesn't just alter your circumstances. It challenges your identity.

Kylie Paul is an identity coach helping women find out who they are now and develop an anchored sense of self that nothing external can take away.

Life change does one
of two things.

It takes away the identity you had. Or it reveals the identity you never fully built.

Either way you end up in the same place, not knowing who you are, not knowing where to go, not knowing how to trust yourself to move forward.

This is where we start.

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4

1:1

PHASE METHOD

90

Free

PRIVATE COACHING

MIN LIFE AUDIT

QUIZ TO START

You know something needs to change. And you're exhausted from trying to figure it out.

You've tried the books, the podcasts, therapy, pushing through, and waiting for clarity that never comes. You keep ending up in the same place.

The problem isn't you. Nobody gave you a process for what life change does to your identity. Without that, even the most self-aware women stay stuck.

The Solstice is that process.

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Introducing The Solstice

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PHASE ONE

A four phase process for women redefining their identity after life changes everything.

The Awareness

You have been living inside an identity you never fully examined. Life change just made that impossible to ignore.

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PHASE TWO

PHASE THREE

PHASE FOUR

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The Turning

The Rising

The Claiming

You've been figuring this out alone long enough. Ninety minutes changes that.

The Compass Audit. A 90 minute 1:1 audit to get clarity on where you are and steps to move forward.

You are starting to see what you have been carrying. And you are beginning to wonder how much of it was ever actually yours.

You know who you are not. Now it is time to build from who you actually are.

You have done the work. Now you claim it. Out loud. Fully. Without hesitation.

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Who is this for

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This work IS for you

If you've been through a change of any sort. A diagnosis. Burnout. A relationship ending. A life that quietly stopped fitting. Or you don't quite recognize yourself anymore.
Or if you've never fully known yourself and something finally made that impossible to ignore.

You don't need to have it figured out. You just need to be willing to look.

This work asks something of you. Not to be perfect or have all the answers but a genuine willingness to show up, go deep, and do the work.

You will get back exactly what you put in. Kylie will guide you, support you, and walk beside you. But nobody can do this for you.

If you're aware enough to know something needs to change, even if you can't name what, you're ready.

This work is NOT for you

If you're looking for someone to hand you the answers.

You want someone to tell you who you are rather than doing the work of finding out yourself.

You're not willing to explore uncomfortable questions or share honestly, even when it's hard.

You're not open to the possibility that you don't know yourself as well as you think.

This is not a judgment. It just means the timing isn't right yet.

An when it is, I will be here.

xx Kylie

Chronic illness took everything I had built my identity around. My career. My capabilities. My sense of who I was. All of it at once.

I didn't find my way through identity loss by staying stuck in it. I grieved it. I accepted it. I let go of the old narrative and started looking inward. At who I actually was, what I valued, the kind of person I wanted to be.

I read everything I could find about identity and ego. I explored what an identity built from the inside out actually looked and felt like.

What I discovered become the foundation for my work, including The Solstice™

I know what it takes to find your way through. I don't want any woman to have to figure it out alone.

Meet Kylie

There's a place for you here.

Choose your path forward.

The Private Solstice

For the woman ready for personalized 1:1 support. The Compass Audit and private coaching.

Group and Workshops

For the woman who wants to do this work in community. The Solstice group program and Identity Workshop.

For organizations, podcasts, and events bringing this conversation to their audience.

Speaking and Keynotes
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You know something needs to change. Start here.