Life change doesn't just alter your circumstances. It challenges your identity.

The books, the podcasts, therapy and pushing through all help a little. None of it quite gets you there. Because none of it was designed specifically for what happens to your sense of self when life changes everything.

That's the gap.

Nobody gave you a process for what life change actually does to your identity. Without that, even the most self-aware women stay stuck.

This is that process.

What The Solstice Is

The Solstice is a four phase 1:1 identity program built specifically for women navigating life change.

It's not generic mindset and goal setting. It is the kind of work that builds something so grounded in who you actually are that nothing external can define or destroy it.

Over four to five months you move through four phases that take you from not recognizing yourself to claiming who you. You will stop making decisions from a place a fear and start to trust yourself.

The Four Phases

Phase One - The Awareness

You've been living inside an identity you never fully examined. Phase One is where you finally do. You go into the specific moments, messages and relationships that built your sense of self in the first place and for the first time you see it clearly. Where it came from. What it was built on. Why life change affected you the way it did. You leave Phase One understanding yourself in a way you never have before.

Phase Two - The Turning

You've spent years carrying an identity built around what life demanded of you. Phase Two is where that changes. You start to see what was actually yours and what was never yours to begin with. And for the first time you get a glimpse of who you actually are underneath all of it. That glimpse is everything the next two phases build from.

Phase Three - The Rising

You know where you came from. You've seen what was never yours. Now you build from what actually is. Your values. How you show up when you're most yourself. What you're no longer willing to compromise. You leave Phase Three with a tested sense of who you are and what it looks like to actually live from it.

Phase Four - The Claiming

This is where you stop needing outside circumstances to tell you who you are. You read your Identity Declaration aloud in your final session. You leave knowing who you are, trusting yourself to make decisions from that place and sturdy enough that life cannot take it from you.

The Transformation

Women who do this work figure out who they are now. Not who they were before and not who others need them to be. They start trusting themselves again. They stop making decisions from fear and start making them from who they actually are. They develop an anchored identity so grounded in who they are that nothing external can define or destroy it. That is what is waiting on the other side of this work.

What's Included

Four to five months of personalized identity work across four phases. Every session is built around your specific story, your specific life change and where you actually are. Nothing generic about it,

Between sessions you have direct access to Kylie through voice notes. When something surfaces between sessions you don't have to sit with it alone until the next call.

At each phase transition there is a dedicated check-in so you never move forward until the work is actually ready to move forward.

You receive custom resources built specifically for the work you are doing. Tools designed for your journey.

In your final session you read your Identity Declaration aloud. That moment and everything it took to get there is captured in your closing document. Something you keep long after The Solstice ends.

Is This For You

This Work Is For You

This Work Is Not For You

You've been through a change of any sort. A diagnosis. Burnout. A relationship ending. A life that quietly stopped fitting. And you don't quite recognize yourself anymore.

Or you've never fully known yourself and something finally made that impossible to ignore.

You don't need to have it figured out. You just need to be willing to look. This work asks something of you. Not to be perfect or have all the answers but a genuine willingness to show up, go deep, and do the work. You will get back exactly what you put in.

If you're aware enough to know something needs to change, even if you can't name what it is, you're ready.

If you're looking for someone to hand you the answers.

If you want someone to tell you who you are rather than doing the work of finding out yourself.

If you're not willing to explore uncomfortable questions or share honestly, even when it's hard.

If you're not open to the possibility that you don't know yourself as well as you think.

This is not a judgment. It just means the timing isn't right yet. When it is, I'll be here.

The Investment

Most women who find their way here have spent significantly more than this trying to figure it out alone. The difference is this is a process built specifically for what life change does to your identity.

The Solstice 1:1 — $3,500 CAD

Founding member rate. First intake only.

Pay in full — $3,500 CAD

Four monthly payments — $900 CAD

From the second intake onward The Solstice 1:1 will be priced at $4,500 CAD.

How It Works

The Solstice accepts applications three times per year. The first intake accepts five to six women. Every application is reviewed personally by Kylie and every woman accepted has been specifically chosen for this work at this time. You will be invited to a 20 minute onboarding call with Kylie before you begin.

A Note From Kylie

Chronic illness took everything I had built my identity around. My career. My capabilities. My sense of who I was. All of it at once.

I spent years looking for something that would help me figure out who I was on the other side of it. Nothing was built specifically for this. So I built it myself.

The Solstice is what I needed and couldn't find. I built it because no woman should have to figure this out alone.

I know what it takes to find your way through. I know what it costs when you don't have the right process. And I know what it feels like to come out the other side knowing exactly who you are. That is what this work gives you.

Are you ready?

The first intake accepts five women. Applications are reviewed personally by Kylie and you will hear back within 48 hours. Five spots is not a marketing line. It is how this work is delivered. Every woman who comes through The Solstice gets full attention across every phase and that is only possible with five.

If you are ready to stop figuring this out alone this is where you start.

Not sure if you're ready?

Start with the free quiz or Compass Audit first.

The Solstice Group

The same four phase identity work. Done alongside women navigating the same terrain.

Coming 2026. Join the waitlist to be the first to know when doors open.